Explain the Decision making process

Explain the Decision making process                       10 Min

Show the 7 steps of decision making process using the following slide or flip chart.

Visual Aid 1.5.5:  7 Steps to take decision

1.     Know issue and when it is relevant 2.     Understand the issue and causes 3.     Brainstorm options with people, write down 4.     Think about pro’s and con’s 5.     Choose based on reflection 6.     Communicate to people involved and affected and make sure it is realised 7.     Evaluate and think about result
Note: Decisions need to be aligned with your long term goals.

Emphasise that the decisions need to be aligned with the goals of an individual. Also ask them what they think about taking decisions. Whether it is easy or not.

Also remind that decision making can be stressful. Sometimes, one might want/need to take decisions against the wishes of the family, which can be hurtful, stressful for everyone. One needs to keep in mind the potential consequences of taking such decisions. Highlight that girls in particular need to seek support, if they want to study further or get married further. Also highlight that teachers, NGOs, friends, community leaders can be supportive and help in convincing parents. Show them the following two points to minimise the stress using the following visual aid.

Visual Aid 1.5.6:  Dealing with Stress in Decision Making

If you are stressed, while making a decision:
-          Take your time: no need for hurry -          Step back: take distance -          Breath and relax -          Ask friends, family, people for discussion -          Involve teachers, NGOs for support to convince family -          Listen to your inner voice

Summary

At the end, summarise the session and invite the participants to stand up and read out the